Why don`t they sort their differences out a little more.

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brisket

I know it adds to our fun, in many cases when there are clashes in the house.
But some of the weak reasons given for nominations made me wonder why some people don`t try to sort some of these things out by discussion.
An example is Karly who says she gets extremely irritated when she enters a room and Charlie says "Hi".
Why on earth doesn`t she simply tell him?
It would be so easy to mention it and perhaps resolve it. Don`t moan Karly - just tell him.

Or are they incapable of holding a reasonable discussion without war breaking out?

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prettycocoaeyesMember 10 years

I agree, they never sort things out, they would rather go to their clique and bitch about it... I think they just do it so that they have nomination reasons...

6/27/095:48 AM

Former Member

I don't think they want to be bothered. They have their little group, and they are all basically alike.

6/27/095:48 AM

longcatMember

quote:
Originally posted by brisket:
I know it adds to our fun, in many cases when there are clashes in the house.
But some of the weak reasons given for nominations made me wonder why some people don`t try to sort some of these things out by discussion.
An example is Karly who says she gets extremely irritated when she enters a room and Charlie says "Hi".
Why on earth doesn`t she simply tell him?
It would be so easy to mention it and perhaps resolve it. Don`t moan Karly - just tell him.

Or are they incapable of holding a reasonable discussion without war breaking out?

Angel told him about it and he still does it.

6/27/095:51 AM

~Lee~Member

quote:
Originally posted by longcat:
quote:
Originally posted by brisket:
I know it adds to our fun, in many cases when there are clashes in the house.
But some of the weak reasons given for nominations made me wonder why some people don`t try to sort some of these things out by discussion.
An example is Karly who says she gets extremely irritated when she enters a room and Charlie says "Hi".
Why on earth doesn`t she simply tell him?
It would be so easy to mention it and perhaps resolve it. Don`t moan Karly - just tell him.

Or are they incapable of holding a reasonable discussion without war breaking out?
Angel told him about it and he still does it.

True....I felt so sorry for him the day Angel said all that to him....The expression on is face spoke volumes.

6/27/095:52 AM

longcatMember

quote:
Originally posted by ~LEE~:
quote:
Originally posted by longcat:
quote:
Originally posted by brisket:
I know it adds to our fun, in many cases when there are clashes in the house.
But some of the weak reasons given for nominations made me wonder why some people don`t try to sort some of these things out by discussion.
An example is Karly who says she gets extremely irritated when she enters a room and Charlie says "Hi".
Why on earth doesn`t she simply tell him?
It would be so easy to mention it and perhaps resolve it. Don`t moan Karly - just tell him.

Or are they incapable of holding a reasonable discussion without war breaking out?
Angel told him about it and he still does it.

True....I felt so sorry for him the day Angel said all that to him....The expression on is face spoke volumes.

But thats the thing your damned if you do it behind their backs and your damned if you do it to their face. You can't win.

6/27/095:55 AM

brisketMember Memoriam

But that shouldn`t prevent reasonable people from calmly trying again.
(If you have done something for years it is perhaps difficult to completely stop immediately.)

6/27/095:57 AM

DuckyMember 10 years

It seems to me it's not resolution they need but a bit of tolerance. Most of the things they are irritated over are very petty.

6/27/096:04 AM

brisketMember Memoriam

I very much agree Duckypup

6/27/096:18 AM

MentalistMember

Why is saying Hi annoying, if he slapped you round the face everytime he saw you then that is something to be pissed off about?

6/27/096:42 AM

Pip*Member

quote:
Originally posted by Mentalist:
Why is saying Hi annoying, if he slapped you round the face everytime he saw you then that is something to be pissed off about?

6/27/096:44 AM

BlackpudlianMember

I thought it was Freddie who had the cheek to say "Hi" to people when he saw them?
I thought that Charlie had an hilarious habit of throwing water on people's eviction outfits or messing around with HMs' possessions.

6/27/096:47 AM

fookatMember

god yeah people saying Hi is well out of order!

6/27/097:04 AM

longcatMember

quote:
Originally posted by fookat:
god yeah people saying Hi is well out of order!

Its not the fact he says Hi its that he says it 50/60 times a day to the same person.

6/27/097:10 AM

MozartMember

Karly and the others just dont like freddie, havent from day one,not one of them has really tried to get to know him and none of them want to either and they are all intent on getting rid of him, so any pathetic excuse will do. I just wish BB would not take "he iritates me because he says hi" or "i dont like the way that he eats" as a valid reason for nominating him.

6/27/098:16 AM

BlackpudlianMember

quote:
Originally posted by fookat:
god yeah people saying Hi is well out of order! Laugh

Its not the fact he says Hi its that he says it 50/60 times a day to the same person.

If he said, "Hi, swine-face" 50/60 times a day, that may get wearing after a month or so, but a simple, "Hi" shouldn't offend.

6/27/0911:10 AM

Soozy WooMember

quote:
Originally posted by ~LEE~:
quote:
Originally posted by longcat:
quote:
Originally posted by brisket:
I know it adds to our fun, in many cases when there are clashes in the house.
But some of the weak reasons given for nominations made me wonder why some people don`t try to sort some of these things out by discussion.
An example is Karly who says she gets extremely irritated when she enters a room and Charlie says "Hi".
Why on earth doesn`t she simply tell him?
It would be so easy to mention it and perhaps resolve it. Don`t moan Karly - just tell him.

Or are they incapable of holding a reasonable discussion without war breaking out?
Angel told him about it and he still does it.

True....I felt so sorry for him the day Angel said all that to him....The expression on is face spoke volumes.

Am I missing something here? What's wrong with saying Hi?

6/27/0912:45 PM

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