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Originally posted by Darthhoob:

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Originally posted by Blizzie:

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Originally posted by Darthhoob:

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Originally posted by Blizzie:
Sexual curiosity is very, very normal.

What isn't normal is our attitude to sex and kids feeling that they can't talk about things that are worrying them.

yes it is, i wasn't arguing that the point i was trying to make is when is it sexual curiousity...and when is it more than that? people have different boundries.

I wasn't disagreeing with you!

I think 'doctors and nurses' games have been going on since we invented doctors and nurses.

I just think we need kids to know that they can speak up, when things go too far.

We are very open about sex, but still manage to make kids feel shameful about anything like that.

sorry i read you wrong

thing is, if a kid did speak up about danny down the road touching them up, and they are of similar age. what would happen?

Hopefully good parenting would kick in and you would believe your child. Even if it turned out to be wrong I think I would at least make the effort to find out. You need to know your own children too. I'd know instinctively if one of mine were lying about something so serious. That's presuming that they speak out in the first place. I'd rather be embarrassed in front of people/police/the world etc than live with myself if it turned out to be true

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me and you must both be sick puppies. i called my son Dexter Morgan ffs

What me and my mum were talking about was if anyone hurt my kids. I said I'd kill them. She jokingly said about my dvd/magazine/book collection and said that would be to blame. Probably would be the way they reported it though

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Here's a thought, possibly a very unpleasant one ... might Baby P have turned out like this if he had survived?

Wow! I'm glad you said that Danjay.
Mrs Joe and I thought the same but I didn't dare post it on here.

I said exactly that, on this forum, when the Baby P case was first reported.

I don't remember anyone getting too cross with me!

It's a terrible cycle of brutality.

Sorry! *Hangs head in shame*