Originally Posted by Cinds:
I can understand that Ditrs, you have to what feels right for you.
The first Christmas after Mr C lost his Mother he wanted everyone at our house (where normally we just hole up in the house and don't see anyone) and it was really nice. Even more special in hindsight as he lost his father very suddenly 3 weeks later.
God that's got me all tearful writing that.
yeah what is it with having to write or type something....
you can think it and manage not to well up (sometimes).. but the moment you have to put pen to paper its like its out of your head & that means its all really really real!
One of the things I have found the hardest was writing the card that went with my flowers for her funeral